Monday, February 22, 2010
marriage
I'm taking my time to reflect on my marriage. I feel as infertilty has defined it. We have lost a lot in the mess. I can't explain it, but I need to reevaluate what I want in my marriage. I'm confused about so much right now. What route do we go to become parents?? Do we buy a house? Do we not buy a house?? I don't know what to do. These are decisions that should be easy, but aren't.
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Those decisions are never easy. Is it possible for you guys to get away for a weekend and reconnect as a couple. No talking about babies, houses, etc. I have found that in the midst of all of our IF battles, short trips alone with DH seem to reconnect us and help us stay grounded.
It is good you are taking some time to really think. Infertility has been a part of our marriage since the beginning. It can change and define a marriage, and it can also bring you closer than you ever thought possible. Buying a house is a huge decision and maybe people struggling with it. Not rushing into it is very important. After our foster daughter returned home, I was so devastated (I grew so close to her) that we purchased a house to fill the void....what a mistake! You are very wise to spend time thinking about what is important to you!
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